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Have you been keeping any dirty secrets from your fiance, family and friends during the wedding planning process? Have you gone over your wedding budget more than you're letting on? Did you pick the ugliest bridesmaid dresses... on purpose? Have you re-gifted any unwanted wedding presents? Be honest: Your post can be completely anonymous if you want, so this is your chance to come clean! No one will ever know you asked the DJ to play Baby Got Back during your mother-in-law's grand entrance...
So speak now, brides... We'll forever hold your peace!
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So speak now, brides... We'll forever hold your peace!
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Real Bride Confessions
Ex that just doesn't get it
My fiance's ex-girlfriend is a bit... ummm psychotic? When she found out we were getting married I found out she was actually planning to show up briefly!! yea ok over my dead body lol! She doesn't quite get the "ex" thing. anyways after weeks of back and forth drama we had a confrontation and we got in a *MAJOR* fist fight and I beat the living crap out of her. It was so bad, there were clumps of hair on the ground afterwards and drops of blood from a bloody nose. It may sound horrible and immature, and it was, but it seemed to work. Haven't heard from her since then.
--Posted by Jennifer, Portland, OR
My fiance's ex-girlfriend is a bit... ummm psychotic? When she found out we were getting married I found out she was actually planning to show up briefly!! yea ok over my dead body lol! She doesn't quite get the "ex" thing. anyways after weeks of back and forth drama we had a confrontation and we got in a *MAJOR* fist fight and I beat the living crap out of her. It was so bad, there were clumps of hair on the ground afterwards and drops of blood from a bloody nose. It may sound horrible and immature, and it was, but it seemed to work. Haven't heard from her since then.
--Posted by Jennifer, Portland, OR
Ex -Boyfriend : my first love just showed up
Just when I am have already introduced my present boyfriend to my entire clan and engaged to be married, my ex boyfriend who happen to be my first love and to whom i had a longest time relationship and has separated 17 years ago showed up. I was surprised when he called me and at that time i felt nothing at all. By the way i did not have any boyfriend after him until 13 years. At first i was just telling him of our plans of getting married but i did not realize that in the process, I have felt I became defensive and afraid that I would fall for him again. He has never been married. Time came thathe came to my place 4x a week and i was surprised that in the process of our conversation, i have felt that everything that happened before was as if it was only yesterday. In other words, everything was freshened up and I realizedI have not really love a man as much as I have loved him... not even with the guy i am engaged to be married. I come from a conservative family and so is my fiance. In fact, he has even introduced me to his clan as his wife already. I asked my ex bf what his intentions are but he just said nothing yet he kissed me and touched me like we were together. When i asked him if he still loves me, he said not anymore yet I know deep inside, like me, he has never loved a woman as much as he loved me. Now i am truly confused.
--Posted by Anonymous
Just when I am have already introduced my present boyfriend to my entire clan and engaged to be married, my ex boyfriend who happen to be my first love and to whom i had a longest time relationship and has separated 17 years ago showed up. I was surprised when he called me and at that time i felt nothing at all. By the way i did not have any boyfriend after him until 13 years. At first i was just telling him of our plans of getting married but i did not realize that in the process, I have felt I became defensive and afraid that I would fall for him again. He has never been married. Time came thathe came to my place 4x a week and i was surprised that in the process of our conversation, i have felt that everything that happened before was as if it was only yesterday. In other words, everything was freshened up and I realizedI have not really love a man as much as I have loved him... not even with the guy i am engaged to be married. I come from a conservative family and so is my fiance. In fact, he has even introduced me to his clan as his wife already. I asked my ex bf what his intentions are but he just said nothing yet he kissed me and touched me like we were together. When i asked him if he still loves me, he said not anymore yet I know deep inside, like me, he has never loved a woman as much as he loved me. Now i am truly confused.
--Posted by Anonymous
only certain kids aren't invited
I know this sounds bad but his cusins kids on one side of the family aren't invited. I don't know them and don't want them there, I don't feel that I should be spending money on food for some people who wouldn't care if they ever saw us. My family on both sides is so close it blows my mind that this side of his family doesn't get together for holiday's or anything. My future FIL sister actually expects him to pla his family (his kids & spouses) christmass around hers so He and only he can come over for dinner. Also my future FIL is pissing me of because he hasn't even offered to help at all in anyway. I think he thinks that because my family had a local successful bussiness they should pay for everything. I'm not saying we would even take it, but it pisses me off because he always does all kinds of things for my Df's x-wife and I pay more for my future step child than she does, in otherwords she doesn't pay anything no childsupport and her treats her better. On top of it all he complains about her if he treats her so well and says that what does he say about me. I know he has a good heart but I don't know what to think because he hasn't offered anything in way of support of the wedding.
--Posted by Futeure in laws confuse you
I know this sounds bad but his cusins kids on one side of the family aren't invited. I don't know them and don't want them there, I don't feel that I should be spending money on food for some people who wouldn't care if they ever saw us. My family on both sides is so close it blows my mind that this side of his family doesn't get together for holiday's or anything. My future FIL sister actually expects him to pla his family (his kids & spouses) christmass around hers so He and only he can come over for dinner. Also my future FIL is pissing me of because he hasn't even offered to help at all in anyway. I think he thinks that because my family had a local successful bussiness they should pay for everything. I'm not saying we would even take it, but it pisses me off because he always does all kinds of things for my Df's x-wife and I pay more for my future step child than she does, in otherwords she doesn't pay anything no childsupport and her treats her better. On top of it all he complains about her if he treats her so well and says that what does he say about me. I know he has a good heart but I don't know what to think because he hasn't offered anything in way of support of the wedding.
--Posted by Futeure in laws confuse you
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What A Girl To Do?
I have told my friend whose daughter is getting married in a destination wedding, which I have been invited to, I want to give a bridesmaid luncheon at the location of wedding; however, recently, my friend has been upset with me and I feel uncomfortable about attending wedding. I want to do something special for the bride but I don't want her to be pulled into this problem between her mother and myself. This is the bride's special time and I am not going to do anything to upset her. Would it be appropriate for me to take her to lunch and give her a monetary gift to help with her wedding?
--Posted by anonymous
I have told my friend whose daughter is getting married in a destination wedding, which I have been invited to, I want to give a bridesmaid luncheon at the location of wedding; however, recently, my friend has been upset with me and I feel uncomfortable about attending wedding. I want to do something special for the bride but I don't want her to be pulled into this problem between her mother and myself. This is the bride's special time and I am not going to do anything to upset her. Would it be appropriate for me to take her to lunch and give her a monetary gift to help with her wedding?
--Posted by anonymous