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The groom may not have been very involved in the wedding plans, but with the wedding only a few weeks away, there are a few things he needs to do- write his vows, get the marriage license, pick-up his tuxedo and well, get groomed! The Everything Groom's Book has the last-minute checklist no groom should be without.
Preparations for the Ceremony
If only getting married were as uncomplicated as many grooms wish it were: Two people would show up at the Justice of the Peace and say, "I do." There wouldn't be much fuss beyond that. However, weddings in this day and age -- as you well know by this point -- are far more involved, and it's every groom for himself. Make sure you're not the guy who shows up at the altar in a T-shirt because you didn't check your tux bag to make sure your wing-tipped-collared shirt was in there.
The Legalities
Have you applied for the marriage license? If not, get your tail in gear and get down to your county clerk's office, pronto. Some states require that both of you apply in person for the license; other states require one of you. Remember to bring cash (many localities will not accept checks or credit cards) and if you live in one of the few states that still require a blood test (the vast majority have done away with it), be prepared for that, also. Don't lose the license once it's in your possession. Don't forget to bring the license to the rehearsal or the wedding. (Whichever event your officiant prefers.) This is your proof that both of you are legally willing and able to be married, and without it ... you're up a creek. After it's been signed by the officiant and your witnesses, it will be sent back to the county clerk to be recorded. You are now officially husband and wife, in the eyes of your state.