6:20 p.m.

Enjoy the backstage excitement with the bride, her mom and dad, and the wedding coordinator.

Meanwhile, the prelude begins. Guests are seated.

6:30 p.m.

Ushers/groomsmen begin seating important family members, such as grandparents, aunts, and uncles.

Officiant walks down the aisle and takes his/her place.

Groom and best man follow.

If there is an aisle runner, two groomsmen roll it out.

6:35 p.m.

Processional starts.

Take your places (in the predetermined order).

6:40 p.m.

Proceed. If you're the maid of honor, you usually precede the bride or go just before the flower girl. Remember to stand tall, walk gracefully and slowly, and appear to be moved (instead of exhausted) by the whole experience. When you're all gathered up front, look out toward the back and wait for the bride. As she starts down the aisle, savor the sight. Make a mental note to tell the bride exactly what it was like to see her in that beautiful, life-changing moment.

-- The Knot Photo: Bruce L. Snell Photography/The Knot

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