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Many brides host a bridesmaids' luncheon or tea to thank the gang for all the wedding prep they've put up with and to get in some last-minute bonding. Usually on the casual side, this girls only get-together is an opportunity to swap stories and for the bride to present each bridesmaid with a bridesmaid gift. To plan your bridesmaids' luncheon or tea, use these basic tips.
When to Gather
The tea or luncheon is usually held a day or two before the wedding and sometimes on the big day itself. This timing works well, especially if your bridesmaids are coming from all over and will be in town for a few days. Also, tensions tend to peak during the final stages -- a relaxing, reflective meal together is the perfect way to chill out.
Before you set a date and time, determine what you can handle. If you think you might be hysterical when the big day arrives, hosting the tea that same afternoon is not advised.
Who's Invited
The maid of honor, bridesmaids, and flower girl comprise the guest list, and no, invitations aren't necessary (unless you're planning something very formal). Some brides include mothers, grandmothers, and other female family members on the guest list, too. Think intimate. While you're formally repaying your maids for their many exertions, keep in mind that this is also a bittersweet occasion. In many ways, the bridesmaids' tea is a fond farewell.
