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Theme schemes
The theme of a shower is up to the hostess. A theme isn't necessary, but it can make decorating, choosing favors and food, and gift-giving easier. Plus, a theme usually makes the party more fun. Some popular examples include:
Around-the-Clock: Guests give gifts related to an hour of the day assigned to them.
Kitchen (or Bedroom or Bath): Gifts and games relate to the chosen room.
Pampering: You can bring in a masseuse or facialist to pamper everyone, but the bride gets the best treats -- spa gift certificates, bath products and so on.
Lingerie: Guests can do damage at the nearest Victoria's Secret store.
Wine tasting: Add some cheese and crackers and you're all set.
Tasty Treats
Speaking of food, the hostess is also in charge of deciding what to serve at the shower. Many showers involve brunch or lunch, but you can also serve coffee and cake (in the mid-morning, mid-afternoon or after dinner), hors d'oeuvres (early evening) or finger sandwiches and tea (mid-afternoon). And shower food doesn't have to cost a fortune. Your local deli can no doubt put together an oversized (usually four- or six-foot) sandwich for everyone to share, or you can have a make-your-own-pizza party, suggest the Wedding Women. Here are some other simple yet satisfying shower ideas from iVillagers: