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Planning the wedding ceremony can be a detailed process. Not only is the ceremony the highlight of the wedding day, there are so many considerations to take into account when planning, from your guests and family to the setting and decor. Here are the answers to some of the most-asked wedding ceremony questions.
Q. The church I'm getting married in is very ornate. It really doesn't need added fresh flowers. Is it all right if I skip the floral arrangements?
A. If the natural beauty of your ceremony site can stand on its own, by all means save some money and skip the extra arrangements. In fact, many couples cut back on their flower budgets by getting married around the holidays, when they can take advantage of the beautiful holiday decorations already on display in their ceremony locations. An easy and inexpensive way to add a personal touch to your site is to add simple tulle or ribbon at the end of each pew or on the last chair in each row.
Q. My fiance and I will be married by a priest who was our professor in college. We are flying him across the country and paying for his hotel, meals, and transportation. I know traditionally the officiant should be paid for the service, but we feel uncomfortable offering him money since we know him so well. Is it appropriate to buy him a gift instead?
A. Absolutely! Your close relationship with your officiant makes giving a gift instead of money more appropriate. He'll appreciate the personal touch. And because you're paying his way, don't feel obligated to make it a pricey gift -- something heartfelt and thoughtful is best.