What to Do about Undesirable Gifts

Of course, you're still bound to end up with at least one picture frame from hell, or one kitchen tool whose use you simply can't identify. What do you do with such undesirables? If the gift is given in a box that identifies where it was purchased (or, even better, a gift receipt is enclosed), return it -- guilt free. The thoughtful gesture of letting you know where the present was purchased is also the guest's way of indicating that she will understand if you choose to return it. As for gifts whose origin is unknown, you've got two choices: Give it to Goodwill or some other charity and take your chances that the giver will never notice it's no longer in your possession. Or stash the eyesore in an alcove and pull it out only when the giver is in your home. One thing you should never do -- no matter how strong the urge -- is "re-gift" an undesirable present. For two reasons: Why stick someone else with what you yourself didn't want? And you might get caught in the (ultra-tacky) act.