I'm having my biological father give me away and I plan on sharing the father-daughter dance with him. Can you give me some ideas on how I can honor my stepfather at the wedding?
--sjm10
It's wonderful for you to think of a way to honor your step-dad. Here are some ideas that are etiquette-friendly:
- Print a message to your parents (including him by name) in your wedding program, thanking them for the support they've given to you both over the years.
- Before the wedding, give your mom and step-dad a nice gift and card, thanking them.
- At the wedding, you could have a father-daughter dance starting off with your dad, and then have your step-dad cut in about halfway through the song.
- Propose a toast to all of your parents, and include his name in there as well. (This is the #1 tribute to parents, and a great moment during the reception)
--Sharon NaylorIf you have etiquette questions for Sharon, post them on the Ask the Wedding Etiquette Expert message board.
