Excerpted from GETTING MARRIED WHEN IT'S NOT YOUR FIRST TIME

"Another wedding -- what will people think?" Take it from four-time "encore" bride and author of Getting Married When It's Not Your First Time Pamela Hill Nettleton: With a little humor and some sage planning advice, the second-time bride can overcome her second-time jitters and have the day of her dreams -- again. Take a look at her guide to getting over these pre-planning jitters, then ask her your own questions on the Second-Time Brides message board, where Pamela is our guest host this month.

Life is just full of surprises, isn't it?

Do you remember a time when you were sure you could never feel this way again? And now, here you are, as happy as a teenager.

Congratulations!

Now, what are you worrying about?

Worries about Marrying Again

"I'm too old to be a bride!"
No, you're not. Once upon a time, the average age of a bride was 18 or 19. Today, it's 26 or 27 and getting older all the time.