When you've got a large number of nuptials to attend, these time- and money-saving tips from the Wedding Women can make finding and buying the perfect presents a breeze.
1. Take advantage of gift registries. Forget the old-fashioned notion that buying off a gift registry is impersonal. Couples spend the time and effort registering for gifts because that's what they truly want. Some catalogs and department stores even allow you to view a couple's registry via fax or online, so you can do all your shopping without ever leaving home.
2. When buying off a registry, don't feel compelled to purchase an item at the listed price. Most couples register at least six months before their wedding, which gives guests plenty of time to wait for a sale before buying. Don't be afraid to ask a salesperson if there's a sale coming up.
3. Ask for ideas. If you don't want to buy off of a couple's registry (or if they're not registered), ask the happy duo themselves (or a maid of honor, parent or someone else who's in-the-know) what they would like. You'll be amazed at how forthcoming most couples are.
4. Consider a group gift. Do you know a number of people who'll be attending the same wedding? Why not suggest chipping in on a costly item? From traditional to truly innovative ideas, gift buying is usually easier when you're working with a bigger budget.
5. Hate to shop? Look for wedding gifts online or in catalogs. Just about anything you can think of -- and even things you can't -- are available by mail order. And, just like department stores, many will wrap and ship your gifts, complete with a card from you. Remember to watch for sales.
6. Dare to be different. If you've got a unique gift in mind, go for it. Make sure you keep the couple's hobbies and personalities in mind, though, not yours: They're into camping? Why not a sleeping bag made for two? Just make sure any gift a couple didn't register for is returnable, either for a refund or for store credit.
7. Stick to a signature gift. If you absolutely love a particular item and know it's a guaranteed hit, give it to all your marrying friends. There's no reason to sweat it out anew each time you need to give a wedding present. (Plus, when buying many gifts at once, you can often get a discount. It never hurts to ask!)
8. Money is a great gift option, too. In fact, many couples prefer it. You can give a check or cash, or, if that makes you uncomfortable, there are always savings bonds. You could even start a money market account for the newlyweds. To personalize your cash gift, write a fun certificate to go with it, such as, "Good for one fancy dinner out," or, "Treat yourselves to a weekend away."
9. Give gift certificates. Gift certificates get a bad rap (some say they're too easy and impersonal), but when did you ever mind getting one? And you don't have to limit your gift certificates to home-decorating stores. Some other options include music stores, bookstores, sporting-goods stores, restaurants, day spas, movie theaters, even hotels.
