Q

"My fiance and I registered at a department store but still have a list of stuff we need. We were going to give this list to our mothers and my matron of honor in case our guests wanted gift suggestions, but should we also include our wish list and registry information in our invitations?" --from iVillager debbo21



A

Dear debbo21:

Registry information should only be included in a bridal shower invitation, and never in a wedding invitation! It's considered tacky, as if the couple is asking for gifts. Your list may also be viewed as being in poor taste and we suggest you abandon it.

Since your present registry isn't substantial, you might want to register at more than one store. Then have your parents and wedding party members spread the word about all the stores with which you've registered. They can also subtly let it be known that you would appreciate monetary gifts. This way, you can afford to buy everything on your wish list after the wedding and guests won't be offended by specific requests.

Here's another suggestion: Does someone plan to throw you a bridal shower? If so, see if there's a general theme to the items on your wish list, and the shower can take on that theme. Do you need kitchen items? Let someone throw you a kitchen shower. You may not get exactly what you were hoping for, but at least you'll come close.

Hope this helps,
The Wedding Women